We live in an age in which a Facebook video of your wedding ceremony could go viral before you slurp down your first oyster at your cocktail hour. A thoughtfully crafted ceremony can turn your social media legacy from run-of-the-mill amateur to legendary superstar and have your wedding guests singing your praises for years to come. Scrap the cookie-cutter ceremonies and traditional wedding vows and allow me to turn your memories, feelings, and hopes for the future into the words that will act as the foundation on which your marriage will be built. Keep reading to learn about my super easy process or check out my wedding vow examples!
Your Feelings…Perfectly Articulated
Ready to get started? Just complete a brief questionnaire and I will turn your feelings, memories, and your hopes for the future into a perfectly articulated expression of some of the most important words of your life. 100% satisfaction guarantee.
The Challenge of Writing Wedding Vows
Wedding planning is no small task, and writing your own wedding vows—while a wonderful way to make your wedding special—can be extremely daunting, especially with everything else you have to worry about.
Beyond the very real chance of writer’s block, there are new challenges, stressors, and undeniably hard times that COVID has us navigating each and every day. Restrictions, fear, and instability are throwing roadblocks in front of even the most prepared wedding planners.
But real weddings are still happening, lasting unions still being formed. Long-standing wedding traditions like personal wedding vows are the bedrock of what these ceremonies represent—true love bonded forever.
So of course you want your vows to be meaningful, to speak to your strength as a couple, and to express your solidarity and dedication to one another.
Your loved ones and closest friends will likely all be watching, and most importantly your partner.
You want that moment of exchanging your vows to be as perfect as you pictured in your head.
You want to see that look of happiness on your future husband or wife’s face as you affirm your promises and commitments to them.
…It’s a lot to take in!
The pressure to capture the moment so you and your partner will remember it for the rest of your lives is enough to make anyone want to throw in the towel and revert to the safety of more traditional—but impersonal—marriage vows.
That’s why it’s my goal to make the process simple for you. Here’s how…
How I Can Help
Adding personal vows to your wedding ceremony will be one of the most memorable aspects of your big day. Whether it’s romantic wedding vows recounting your love story, funny wedding vows incorporating your inside jokes, or religious wedding vows spotlighting your commitment to your faith and one another, I promise to craft your emotions, stories, and devotion, into the perfect vows that’ll make your wedding day unforgettable.
By filling out a brief questionnaire, I will learn about your feelings for your partner, memories you share, and your hopes for the future which I will then turn into a perfectly articulated expression of some of the most important words of your life. I welcome same-sex marriages as well as ethnically diverse couples. You will receive a first draft, and I will make any necessary edits based on your feedback. My services are 100% guaranteed and you will receive a complete refund if I don’t hit the nail on the head. Rush service available for an additional $50.00 (less than ten day lead time).
Here is my step by step process to making it all come together.
The Process

Getting to Know You
In order for me to write a truly memorable and personal piece for your wedding ceremony, I need to learn some details of your relationship. The questions are driven to unearth the most intricate details – for example, I will not just ask about the first time you met, but if you remember any specifics of that moment. Do you remember what you were wearing or what he/she was wearing? Maybe you remember the way your partner laughed or interacted with someone else. Was there a moment you knew this person was the one, and if so, did you happen to be eating a double cheeseburger with fries at the moment? Since then, what other discoveries have you made about your partner that are endearing? These are the details that will make your ceremony stand out from the traditional cookie-cutter molds we have all heard a hundred times.

Storytelling
Your answers will inspire me to design your ceremony into what guests will remember for years to come. Every memory, feeling, and hope for the future will be yours. My job is to capture these thoughts and compose an articulate script that you and your partner are proud of. Read some sample pieces below.

Revisions
Many comparable writing services limit the number of edits you make to the final version. I want you to be completely happy with the final product and I have no problem making as many revisions as necessary to get there. My work is 100% guaranteed so if we can’t achieve the perfect vows for you, you pay absolutely nothing.
Your Feelings…Perfectly Articulated
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Wedding Vow Examples & Writing Samples
Ceremony Excerpt
The following passage is part of an introduction to a ceremony that I officiated. The couple got married in the woods on Cape Cod so the reference to their memory of biking through wooded trails was fitting.
When I asked about a special memory you share, it was interesting to me that you picked something that metaphorically represents marriage. You recalled a biking trip you took in the Adirondacks. The trail was challenging with downed limbs and mud to maneuver through, bugs to contend with, and seemingly no end in sight. But you persevered and refused to give up. You did, eventually, find a road, but you didn’t count on the fifteen mile return trip being uphill. You described the ride as both exhausting and exhilarating, and several times, you nearly road right off a cliff. Marriage is much like that ride – it takes work, dedication, and faith. But throughout the journey, there are joys and triumphs, and open roads you stumble upon unexpectedly. As you embark on this next phase in your relationship, remember that ride and the joy you felt in conquering the obstacles which would have been so easy to succumb to.
Personal Vows
I wrote the following vows from Nathan to Kristen. It was important for them to write personal vows to each other. Kristen was very comfortable with penning her feelings to paper, but Nathan felt he couldn’t quite articulate the intensity of his feelings. He filled out my questionnaire which is designed to dig deep and gain insight about small, yet significant details about a couple’s relationship. These are the vows that, with Nathan’s input, I came up with for him. According to Nathan and Kristen, there wasn’t a dry eye in the crowd.
Kristen, I remember the first moment I saw you. You were eating an apple and taking the daintiest little bites. I thought to myself that you would never finish it and I didn’t care because I could have watched you nibble away for hours. You still eat apples like that and I still love watching because it reminds me of the moment that changed my life. I didn’t know anything about you, but something about you lit me up inside and I haven’t been the same since. Since then, I have discovered so many more little habits you have that may seem trivial, but to me, they’re all the intricacies that make you who you are. I love the way you twirl your hair absentmindedly when you read a book, I love that you not only have to stop to pet every single dog we pass, but you have to learn the dog’s name, age, and breed. I love that you can’t spell the word refrigerator and that you carry a lucky marble in your purse. I love the way your ears stick out of your hair and that you always write handwritten thank you notes. Most of all, I love that you make me want to be a better person, to get out of bed every single day and make you happy. I, Nathan, promise you, Kristen, that I will continue to try to make you happy every day for the rest of my life no matter what obstacles we may face. I promise to cherish each day we share together, even days that are challenging. I vow to be your rock when you need one, your shoulder to cry on, your partner to laugh with, and your greatest admirer. I promise to be the best husband I can be as we journey through life together.You are my soul mate and the one who makes my world come to life. I can’t wait to continue to discover everything about you as we grow old together. I love you, and everything about you, with all my heart.
Reverse Personal Vows
Not a fan of public speaking? Who says your wedding officiant can’t read them for you? Check out my blog post for other alternative ways to personalize your vows.
Chris, ever since you volunteered to cook for your future in-law’s dinner party, Beth knew you were the one for her. Not only did that moment prove to Beth that you are selfless, caring, and always willing to lend a hand, but the menu you proposed brought comfort in knowing she would no longer have to survive on frozen dinners and pasta. Now, countless gourmet meals later, Beth has never looked back and can’t wait to begin the next chapter in your lives. She is forever grateful to you for always finding the silver lining in even the most challenging times; you never fail to make her smile and boost her up when she is down. Your ability to find humor in life balances her more serious nature, and together, you are a perfect team, able to tackle any obstacles that may come your way. As you look to the future as husband and wife, Beth promises to support your goals and work together to achieve them. She will never let a day go by without saying ‘I love you’ and will never complain about doing the dishes or folding the laundry in exchange for those wonderful meals you prepare. She will always be open and honest and communicate even when it’s hard to speak the truth. Above all, Beth vows not just to be your wife, but to be your best friend, to stand by your side always, and to love you more than these words could ever express.
Your Feelings…Perfectly Articulated
Ready to get started? Just complete a brief questionnaire and I will turn your feelings, memories, and your hopes for the future into a perfectly articulated expression of some of the most important words of your life. 100% satisfaction guarantee.